World No.1 Divorce Lawyer: If You Do This, Your Marriage Is Already Over.

Expert Jim Sexton argues that relationship failure typically stems from "slippage"—the gradual accumulation of small disconnections driven by a societal myth of effortless love—rather than single catastrophic events. He advocates for weekly rituals of explicit appreciation and vulnerability, alongside proactive legal frameworks like prenuptial agreements, to ensure partners remain prioritized and authentic. By integrating individual therapy with these structural tools, couples can overcome childhood wounds and avoid the "flood" of decay that leads to high-achiever divorces.